A conversation I had today brought to mind something I have been reading and hearing of over and over from various sources… being grateful, not just grateful, but grateful for where I am. Now, I must tell you, it takes a lot for me to say this. Those who know me and know how I’ve felt the past number of years will know what I mean, so I’m not going to follow that thought here at all… it would defeat the purpose. This blog is of a personal nature, so reading it may well turn out to be immensely boring. I won’t be offended if you glance and move on : )
It is well known that those who give thanks for what they have, somehow ‘attract’ more of the good. Whiners tend to get more of the negative… right? The key here is to use no negative words at all. Try it… it isn’t as easy as it sounds. I’m not allowing myself to say something like, "I’m grateful I don’t have…", as ‘don’t’ is negative. Let’s see how far I can take this exercise.
So… I’m grateful
… that I have a home that is bright and sunny… and waterproof.
… that I have my little family around me. I know where each one is. I can talk to them whenever I please.
… that we are all healthy. I look around and see wet noses and sparkly eyes. Ok… so the healthy thing covers the animals too : )
… that I trip over animals that love to rub up against my legs. Unconditional love is good, especially when I have treats in hand
… that I have treats to give!
… that I live in Brazil. Living here has gotten me one very dear friend, a godmother to my child, and a hoard of wonderful friends all over the world!
… for my computer and our normally excellent internet connection
… for the freedom to surf, explore, do research
… that I found my cousins after more than 30 years of silence
… that I can read on my favourite subjects, so that once I have moved, I can study and it will be easier to qualify
… that I have been given the time to prepare to move
… supper is smelling good ; )
… for my incredible sense of smell, which makes me check the supper before it… well… y’know ; )
… for my family’s great sense of humour. It has helped though some… interesting times
… for the learning curve life threw me on when we made the decision to come to Brazil
… I have had the opportunity to broaden my horizons and look deeply into a different culture, way of life, different religions… a different way of thinking
… for the ‘fertilizer’ I am often surrounded with. It helps me grow
I am grateful that I am South African. I am grateful for who I am and what I am. My world comes with its little ‘challenges’, sure, but life is good…. right?